Please mark the
acceptable behaviors on the chart below.
____ 1. Ignoring the girl in the garish and revealing costume,
whether on purpose or simply being otherwise engaged.
____ 2. Briefly glancing at the girl in the garish and revealing
costume.
____ 3. Briefly glancing directly at a partially exposed erogenous
zone on the girl in the garish and revealing costume.
____ 4. Properly looking at a partially exposed erogenous zone on
the girl in the garish and revealing costume.
____ 5. Staring, or otherwise properly looking for a length no
less than four complete seconds, at a partially exposed erogenous zone on the
girl in the garish and revealing costume.
____ 6. Taking a photograph of a partially exposed erogenous zone
on the girl in the garish and revealing costume.
____ 7. Demanding a girl in the garish and revealing costume
defend her knowledge of the character and source material that inspired it.
____ 8. Shouting condemnations or related expletives at a girl in the garish and revealing costume
if her replies are not satisfactory.
____ 9. Following a girl in the garish and revealing costume across
part of the convention center, while engaging in any form of looking and/or
arguing.
____ 10. Following a girl in the garish and revealing costume across
the length of the convention center, while engaging in any form of looking and/or
arguing.
____ 11. Following a girl in the garish and revealing costume across
the length of the convention center, into an event, and demanding her attention.
____ 12. Following a girl in the garish and revealing costume out
of the convention center and to a restaurant, shopping center, or her hotel.
____ 13. A felony.
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I think this is a good listing out of the behaviour continuum. I'd love to see it done up as an XKCD-style chart.
ReplyDeleteWhat's interesting is the lack of a feedback monitoring step on how the girl in the garish and revealing costume is reacting to any or all of the attention (although if she's crossing the convention floor and/or leaving the building, one would hope the necessity to follow her to continue engagement would trigger something). Generally speaking, if you treat people, even ones in garish and revealing costumes, with respect, then they will let you go farther along the continuum before trying to shut things down.
I recently had a guy at a pub (we have friends in common) try to trick me into kissing him by "checking his breath" for him. Jerking and turning my head away and saying I didn't care what his breath was like wasn't good enough; I had to yell at him and tell him to f*** off before he ceased and desisted. Fortunately he's a known "bull in a china shop", as his friend who escorted him away put it; I've seen people gang up on the person being bullied for "causing a scene".
There's a lot to reply to in this, Katherine. Nothing trumps my disgust at that "trick" - I just don't understand the headspace of such people. I'm sorry you experienced that to begin with.
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